Wednesday, February 24, 2010

demimu anne ^_^

assalamualaikum..

finally,
its spring break!!!!!!!yeahh^_^

ok anne, tag tu nk kna blas ke rupanya..xperasan plak.haha

7things I plan to do before I die:
1.taubat
2.master
3.travel the globe^_^
4.pg haji ngn mak ayah
5.mntak ampun dr suma org
6.be happy with my soulmate
7.be a good muslimah

7things I cannot do:
1.see people crying
2.riding motorcycle
3.xmkn nasik
4.be loud
5.not-so-good lier
6.fight with my sis (in fact,xpenah gdoh)
7....(isikan)

7things I can do:
1.good listener
2.ngadap laptop lyan nur kasih 12jam
3.being far away from family,but not friends..
4.observing people...
5.tolerate
6.cross skate =)
7...

7persons crushes:
1.a primary schoolmate
2.his sincerity
3.a college-mate
4.kim hyun joong
5. FT
6.maher zain's songs
7.maybe its u!

7 oft-repeated words at the moment:
1.kot
2.Ya Allah....
3.laa..
4.huhu
5.insyallah la..
6.okehh
7.hi (sbb floormates yg ramah = =)

7thing that attract me to the opposite sex:
1.byk ckp (opp attract) = =
2.gentleman
3.sense of humor
4.simple but nice
5.an ambitious person
6.jaga smyg/bleh jd imam
7.really care with family and others

tag 7friends:
3.eg
7.wak

p/s tuk hari nie.jgn lagho.make every minute worth!.plus,salam maulidur rasul 12 rabiulawwal 1431.mari immarahkan usrah dan sambutan d parkpoint./baitul..(sorry xingt nma umah)

ilal liqa'.


Saturday, February 20, 2010

Beating the winter blues~


Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Also known as Winter Depression@Winter Blues


Experts are not sure what causes SAD, but they think it may be caused by a lack of sunlight. Lack of light may upset your sleep-wake cycle and other circadian rhythms. And it may cause problems with a brain chemical called serotonin that affects mood.(WebMD 2008)

Anyone can get SAD, but it is more common in:

People who live in areas where winter days are very short or there are big changes in the amount of daylight in different seasons. (me=uncheck)

Women.(check)

People between the ages of 15 and 55. The risk of getting SAD for the first time goes down as you age.(check!)

People who have a close relative with SAD.(uncheck)


Symptoms:
~depression
~anxiety
~loss of energy
~social withdrawal
~increased sleep or sleepiness (yupp!)
~loss of activities you once enjoyed
~overeating (craving for carbs) ..-->thats me! = =
~weight gain ouch!

Strategies for coping with SAD. Theres no cure for this disorder.
*increased amount of light in room
*get outside
*exercise regularly
*find ways to relax
*take a trip
*light therapy
*psychotherapy
*medication

Wanna know more bout winter in Rochester?..by the numbers:
Average temperature : July 71.3F (ok,21.8C) ~Feb 23.6F(-4.7C..but i think we hit -16C once)
Average annual snowfall : 95inches (thats almost 8ft of snow every winter)

Get outside and play!
Embrace what winter has to offer: Skiing,snowboarding,sledding,snow tubing and not-to-forget,ice-skating!


ok,it make sense now.hahaha.dont worry gals,winter gonna ends very soon!smile=)

p/s.focus to one and only final.BIO.bittaufiq to all=)
btw,thanx for the reminder,blogger update center.^_^

Sunday, February 14, 2010

bulan ini bulan cinta ^_^


In the name of Allah,the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful



"dan segala sesuatu kami ciptakan berpasang-pasangan agar kamu mengingat(kebesaran Allah)"

(surah adz-dzariyat :49)


yea,Allah sudah ciptakan segala sesuatu berpasang-pasangan,daripada DNA base pair smpailah ke manusia,sebaik-baik kejadian Allah nie.^_^
tapi, mengapa ramai yang mendahului sunnatullah ini sebelum diijab kabulkan..ermm,nafsu mungkin?atau angkara syaitan?waallahua'lam.



...

Namamukah yang tertulis di luh mahfuz sana?
Engkaukah yang bakal menemaniku jalan menuju syurga?
Dirimukah yang akan melengkapkan separuh dari agamaku?
Aduhai Adam.
Adakah kau yang tercipta untukku?
Jawab pertanyaanku ini.
Jawab!

Kau takkan pernah dapat memberi jawapan
Kerna jawapannya bukan di tanganmu
Tetapi di tanganNya.
Di tangan Tuhan kita; Allah
Tuhanku dan Tuhanmu

Gelisahku memikirkan dirimu
Dan ketakutanku memikirkan Tuhanku
Aduhai Adam
Maafkan aku.
Ketakutanku pada Tuhanku melebihi kegelisahanku memikirkanmu

Jemput diriku pabila waktunya tiba
Sebelum sampai saat itu, biarkan aku sendiri bersama Si Dia
Akan kucipta cinta bersama Dia
Sebelum kucipta cinta antara kita

Jadilah dirimu kumbang yang hebat
Dan doakan aku agar menjadi bunga yang mekar

"i've leave him for the sake of Allah"

Sesungguhnya Allah takkan pernah mensia-siakan pengorbananmu sayang
Bilamana kita tinggalkan semua ini kerana Allah semata
Yakinlah!
Akan ada sesuatu yang indah untukmu di pengakhiran nanti

Dan sesungguhnya hari kemudian
itu lebih baik bagimu
daripada yang sekarang (permulaan).
Dan kelak Tuhanmu
pasti memberikan karunia-Nya kepadamu ,
lalu (hati) kamu menjadi puas.
[Ad dhuha: 4 & 5]

Untuk itu
Aku tinggalkan dirimu padaNya

Sesungguhnya
aku bertawakkal
kepada Allah Tuhanku dan Tuhanmu.
Tidak ada suatu binatang melata
melainkan Dia-lah yang memegang ubun-ubunnya.
Sesungguhnya Tuhanku di atas jalan yang lurus.
(Allah Maha Adil)
[Hud: 56]




usah bersedih atas perpisahan sementara ini
jika benar dia tercipta untukmu
tiada apa yang dapat menghalangnya
sebelum saat itu tiba
berdoalah pada Allah moga diberi kekuatan
mohonlah padanya dengan penuh mengharap


Yakinlah pada janji Allah!

Wanita-wanita yang keji adalah untuk laki-laki yang keji, dan laki-laki yang keji adalah buat wanita-wanita yang keji (pula), dan wanita-wanita yang baik adalah untuk laki-laki yang baik dan laki-laki yang baik adalah untuk wanita-wanita yang baik (pula). Mereka (yang dituduh) itu bersih dari apa yang dituduhkan oleh mereka (yang menuduh itu). Bagi mereka ampunan dan rezki yang mulia (surga)
[An Nur: 26]

Beruntunglah kamu !
tatkala Allah memilihmu untuk menyedari hakikat perhubungan antara lelaki dan wanita
Allah memilihmu sayang
Jangan pernah sia-siakan kasih sayang Allah ini

maka Allah mengilhamkan kepada jiwa itu (jalan) kefasikan dan ketakwaannya
sesungguhnya beruntunglah orang yang mensucikan jiwa itu
dan sesungguhnya merugilah orang yang mengotorinya
[ As Syams: 8-10]

Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang mengatakan:
"Tuhan kami ialah Allah"
kemudian mereka meneguhkan pendirian mereka,
maka malaikat akan turun kepada mereka dengan mengatakan:
"Janganlah kamu takut dan janganlah merasa sedih;
dan gembirakanlah mereka
dengan jannah yang telah dijanjikan Allah kepadamu
[Fussilat:30]

Dan tika kamu merasa lemah
Mohonlah kekuatan dariNya
Allah itu dekat
yakin pasti

Dan jika syaitan mengganggumu dengan suatu gangguan,
maka mohonlah perlindungan kepada Allah.
Sesungguhnya Dia-lah yang Maha Mendengar lagi Maha Mengetahui
[Fussilat:36]



Sayang,
kamu intan terpilih
jagalah kilauanmu sayang
jangan biarkan sang kumbang merosakkannya sebelum yang halal tiba
aku mendoakanmu
sentiasa
~

Karya asal : daffodil At-toriq
www.iluvislam.com

Thursday, February 11, 2010

because we are muslim women.

A Letter From A Christian to Muslim Women


I see you as precious gems, pure gold, or the “pearl of great value” spoken of in the Bible (Matthew 13: 45). All women are pearls of great value, but some of us have been deceived into doubting the value of our purity.

Jesus said: “Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you” (Matthew 7: 6).

Our pearls are priceless, but they convince us that they’re cheap. But trust me; there is no substitute for being able to look in the mirror and seeing purity, innocence and self-respect staring back at you.

The fashions coming out of the Western sewer are designed to make you believe that your most valuable asset is your sexuality. But your beautiful dresses and veils are actually sexier than any Western fashion, because they cloak you in mystery and show self-respect and confidence.

A woman’s sexuality should be guarded from unworthy eyes, since it should be your gift to the man who loves and respects you enough to marry you. And since your men are still manly warriors, they deserve no less than your best.

Our men don’t even want purity anymore. They don’t recognize the pearl of great value, opting for the flashy rhinestone instead. Only to leave her too!

Your most valuable assets are your inner beauty, your innocence, and everything that makes you who you are. But I notice that some Muslim women push the limit and try to be as Western as possible, even while wearing a veil (with some of their hair showing).

Why imitate women who already regret, or will soon regret, their lost virtue? There is no compensation for that loss.

You are flawless diamonds. Don’t let them trick you into becoming rhinestones. Because everything you see in the fashion magazines and on Western television is a lie. It is Satan’s trap. It is fool’s gold.

A Woman’s Heart

I’ll let you in on a little secret, just in case you’re curious: pre-marital sex is not even that great. We gave our bodies to the men we were in love with, believing that that was the way to make them love us and want to marry us, just as we had seen on television growing up.

But without the security of marriage and the sure knowledge that he will always stay with us, it’s not even enjoyable! That’s the irony. It was just a waste. It leaves you in tears.

Speaking as one woman to another, I believe that you understand that already. Because only a woman can truly understand what’s in another woman’s heart. We really are all alike.

Our race, religion or nationalities do not matter. A woman’s heart is the same everywhere. We love. That’s what we do best. We nurture our families and give comfort and strength to the men we love.

But we American women have been fooled into believing that we are happiest having careers, our own homes in which to live alone, and freedom to give our love away to whomever we choose. That is not freedom. And that is not love.

Only in the safe haven of marriage can a woman’s body and heart be safe to love. Don’t settle for anything less. It’s not worth it. You won’t even like it and you’ll like yourself even less afterwards. Then he’ll leave you.



Self-Denial

Sin never pays. It always cheats you. Even though I have reclaimed my honor, there’s still no substitute for having never been dishonored in the first place.

We Western women have been brainwashed into thinking that you Muslim women are oppressed. But truly, we are the ones who are oppressed; slaves to fashions that degrade us, obsessed with our weight, begging for love from men who do not want to grow up.

Deep down inside, we know that we have been cheated. We secretly admire and envy you, although some of us will not admit it.

Please do not look down on us or think that we like things the way they are. It’s not our fault. Most of us did not have fathers to protect us when we were young because our families have been destroyed. You know who is behind this plot.

Don’t be fooled, my sisters. Don’t let them get you too. Stay innocent and pure. We Christian women need to see what life is really supposed to be like for women. We need you to set the example for us, because we are lost. Hold onto your purity.

Remember: you can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube. So guard your “toothpaste” carefully! I hope you receive this advice in the spirit in which it is intended: the spirit of friendship, respect, and admiration.

From your Christian sister 'with love'.


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dihantar oleh: asmath264
editor: deynarashid

p/s thanks for sharing ai. its really meaningful..
and alex,if you are reading this(which i know u did)..there are a lot more you should know.